Life with a baby

The last time I posted a blog I was still pregnant, so it is beyond time to update. James Samuel Thornton was born on September 30, 2010 at 5:30pm. He was quiet a surprise for us because James was supposed to be Alyson. Yes, thats right, they had told us that we were having a girl. We even had an ultrasound one week to the day before we had him (three days after he was due) and they double checked and said "yup, its still a girl!" Imagine my surprise when John said "Its a boy!" I said, "No, its a girl." and John looked at me and said "No, seriously, Its a BOY!!!"

He is the most perfect little angel. I might be a little biased though. He was 8lbs 5oz and 21 3/4" long at birth. And it looks like he is going to be a very big boy. He had already gained a pound and 4 ounces by his 3 week appointment. He makes John and I laugh constantly, and we even have nick names for him. Monster baby, or pig pig. He snorts when he is happy, and growls like a little monster when he gets upset. He is just a little bundle of fun. He even started smiling the week before last.




We feel truly blessed to have been given such a beautiful son! I feel so luck every morning to wake up next to my wonderful husband and my cute little boy. Oh, and my two foot warmers, Blue and Sneezy. We cant forget the cats. Everyone knows they are really the ones that run the house! I will post the story of the birth right after this. Its a great story and I laugh a little more every time I read it!

Baby update

Hi everyone! It's time for a baby update. I'm currently at 30wks, 4 days and getting bigger by the moment it seems. The doctor has put me on bed rest due to the fact that I started having contractions at 27 weeks. Baby Alyson is looking great though! They estimate that she is around 3lbs and about 15 1/2" long at this point. She moves around constantly, and one of our favorite past times has become watching her move. This does lead to a bit of a problem when the nursing staff at the hospital try to hook me up for the NST (non-stress test). They have started calling her Houdini baby! By the look of things I will be on bed rest until I hit 36wks. At that point they are confident that she will be developed enough to be born. John and I are so excited for her to get here already! We cant wait to welcome this little addition to our family!

Pregnancy

For some of you this is old news at this point, but for the rest this will be all shiny and new! We found out on January 13th that we are expecting our first child. John and I are both very excited and cant wait to start this new leg of our journey together! Here are some photos from the last two weeks. Both taken on Fridays. One set is of me at 12, 4 days and the second set is of me at 13 weeks, 4 days. I hope you all like them!

How terrible am I?

While reading through my big cousin Amber's blog (love you Ambee!) I thought that it would be a good time to update everyone on whats been going on up here in Fresno. For starters, since my last post on August 30th, I have returned to the wonderful world of Home Depot. My back isnt 100%, but it is getting better every day, and I'm so thankful for that. John really helped out while I was going through the bad parts. He even did the laundry for me. I was so shocked that I had to laugh through tears. That is his most hated chore.

Hooray for great husbands!

Also while I was off work we helped John's mom do an audition video for The Amazing Race. Her and John's Aunt Vikki are hoping to make it on to the next season.
Good luck to Lisa and Aunt Vikki!


As of right now we are just getting ready for the holidays. I especially love this time of the year. There is just something about the cold weather and peoples attitudes that makes this time worth waiting for. We were lucky enough to be able to go down south for Thanksgiving. We had dinner at both the Groves and Thornton's houses. Needless to say, we were stuffed!





















The center piece John's dad made out of plants and flowers from their back yard.


























Scott(John's Dad) Carving the turkey.



The awesome cheese cake I made the night before. I love to bake!


I'll update again (hopefully) before Christmas. If not, God bless, Merry Christmas and a very happy new year to you all!

-Mist

If its not one thing....

While working a closing shift on Thursday night I came up against a situation that unfortunately happens on a regular basis. A customer needed to have three 50lb bags of cement loaded into their car for them. The customers were a very sweet elderly couple. The husband had recently had knee surgery and his wife looked as if she would break in half if she tried to lift more then 10 lbs. My cashiers did everything they could to find someone to load. They called for building and lumber, but as always they were no where to be found. They paged over head and on the radio for anyone that was available to help but no one answered. When I walked up to the register my cashier Emmanual looked at me with a very distressed look on his face and said that he couldnt find anyone to help. I offered to load the customers my self.

I have loaded 50lb bags thousands of times in the three and a half years that I have worked for Home Depot. I didnt think much of it and assured the customers that it wasnt a problem. We got out to the parking lot and I got the first bag into the truck with out incident. On the second bag, however, I started to loose my balance and the bag started to fall. As I started to try to get everything back together, it happened. I felt a "pop" and then my lower back started tingling the way your foot does when it falls asleep. Then it "popped" again and thats when the pain started.

I managed to make it back inside and get a hold of the manager on duty. Next thing I know Im sitting in the emergency room at St. Agnes Medical Center. The doctor had to give me three full syringes of pain killers before they could take me to x-ray to see if I had fractured my spine. The x-rays look good she said, but she thinks I may have one or more slipped or herniated disks. As it stands right now I'm not allowed to drive, I can not walk on my own, sitting or standing is a challenge and I can only sleep on my left side. I never realized how much I loved sleeping on my stomach!

When all this went down I was by my self. John had left earlier in the day to go to Long Beach to pick up a shipment for work, and our nearest friends live at least an hour away. I ended up having to go through the emergency situation alone, but I had two wonderful nurses that stayed with me until John's uncle could get there from O' Neals to take me back to their house so I would have help until John could get back.

I'll be going to an occupational therapist on Monday to find out if I will be able to return to work. I'm really hoping its soon. I'm already going stir crazy not being able to do anything.

John has been wonderful. He has been taking care of all the things I normally do like dishes, laundry, moping and cleaning the bathroom and kitchen and so forth. He checks on me every few minutes to make sure Im comfortable and that I have enough apple juice or chocolate milk :)

I'll keep you all posted on what happens on Monday and how things are progressing. Wish us luck!

Quitting

John and I sat down today and decided that we are both going to quit smoking. WE saved our receipts from the last month and tallied up how much we were spending on cigarettes. It was almost $600! between the two of us. I was going at just over a pack a day, and John was at almost 2 packs per day. Our day to start quitting is next Friday. I plan to use the patch/gum approach and he is going to try using just gum while doing this. The last time I tried quitting I got very moody and tried killing everyone around me so I'm hoping for a better outcome this time. John has already managed to get down to less then a pack per day, and I am so proud of him! It takes a lot of will power to be able to to this. My goal is to be smoke free by my birthday. 10/10/2009. Im going to need a lot of support and I know I have John backing me 100% of the way. If you guys find any information that may be helpful in this endeavor feel free to send me an email. mdgroves1@yahoo.com. I could use all the help I can get. Wish us luck!

Misty

"On the road again, do do do do do On the road again..."

Yay! Looks like John and I might be heading down to So Cal next weekend for a quick visit! We will most likely leave on friday, arriving sometime Friday evening, and will head back up on sunday night. Yay!